Make the Most of Wedding Themes

More and more women are breaking away from traditional style wedding and choosing funky themes to express their personal style. Themes are endless, and are a unique way of expressing a couple's tastes and interests.

A friend of mine loves the twenties, so it came naturally to include that passion into the feeling of the wedding. Favors included vintage-inspired tins of lavender, her dress was a tea-stained gown, and the photographer did photos of the couple in sepia. They not only turned out beautifully, but have since become a great conversation piece – people have thought they were pictures of her grandmother! Era inspired themes are a lot of fun, but make sure to choose one you love.

Another bride chose a luau theme. The tropical flowers in her hair were a beautiful touch to a breezy eyeleted dress which worked perfectly with the summer date and the reception right on the beach. Party favors included silk-flower leis which put everyone in the mood for hula dancing, while the food included savory roast pork, fresh pineapple and a colorful array of punches. The best part about that wedding was wearing comfortable sandals instead of heels!

Themes should stem from your life: your hobbies, passions and interests. Dare to go bold and be inventive, but remember the trick to making a theme work without being overbearing is not over-doing it. Add a few distinctive, stylish touches. If you like the nostalgia of the Wild West, don’t wear cowboy boots and chaps, but use a few hints of the theme with flair: a lucky horseshoe charm on invitations, party favors tied with a bit of rope or leather, a unique cake or a rustic style centerpiece. A few touches go a long way.

The most important rule of all is selecting a theme you are truly passionate about. Avoid going with trends strictly for their trendy status (think sleeved wedding dresses of the eighties), and think fresh, unique, and fun.

Author: Carrie Stingl